" The Marriage "

The institution of marriage may be of two types۔

 Arranged marriage  and Love marriage.

In an arranged marriage we have to arrange all and all till the end of every limit . 

In love marriage  to arrange love  is our first priority but  the bitter realities push love at back benches ,we try our best but love loses its freshness gradually , at last there left no difference between arranged and love marriage.

One thing happens in life that in an arranged marriage care and protection tend to take the place of love somehow but in love marriage care and protection shadows unconditional love۔ 

Important to remember : An arrange  marriage may be slowly turns in to a love marriage but a love marriage ultimately becomes an arrange marriage with the passage of time .

" The fragrance of woman "

 Girls are like Rose buds  ,feeling strong in inner self ,attractive but unrevealed not in others eye but also  in their own .As these does not know their real strength ,their delicacy,their smell ,their destiny ,their tears  and their life too. On the other hand  woman is like flower who is well aware,  as all  feels are being written on her body and soul as well . Bud is illiterate to know the language of touch. Flower feels the depth of every feel .Flower knows some crush its identity ,some just took the essence of it and convert to the world's most precious and unique image ( the honey), some just make it dance like  breeze , some blessed it dewdrops of love , some wet it as a whole like showers of rain . One thing common in both  is  'Fear ' although its dimensions are different .A bud has a fear of unknown but a flower has a fear of all the known that it has been suffered  .Bud has just dreams  in eyes  ,flower has thorns that blues its eyes. Flower knows the end of the story but a bud is eager to know the title of the story . The energy of life is hidden in a bud but it is being expressed by a flower . Bud is a beauty to all but  flower is the meaning of beauty for those who wants to know. Last but not the least  both are on the expense of storm of time that never sees beauty nor value so own what you are and feel as you can .

 

"Our Needs Our Demands "

In our life we think money is the solution of every thing . when we get money and comforts then we think money has no value ,actual treasure is Love , when we find love from our relations and  people keeps on loving ,we want to quit they support , they console our inner self ,they follow our foot steps ,they worship us ,we may be the goal of their life.a time comes when we come to know that we need something else . we think that only love and love can't fulfill our demand . we wish to be respected by others ,we think that love is only a mutual understanding . when we  are respected by others an urge grows in our heart that they might understand us , they  could listen  the voice of our soul  . At last life ends but our demands from other persons never ends .

"Relationship"

 A relationship starts with friendship and grows to intimacy .Friendship and Intimacy have their own limits we must not intermingle these .Friendship is to express every feel  and intimacy is to feel every  expression . To keep a distance is an important factor in a relationship it does not affect its intimacy rather it glorify its beauty more . This is a lesson of life for every relation too. Respect and space is the key note of every relation . Privacy is far more important not in friendship but in intimacy too , privacy means care in love not love with care . As when we love someone with care we become extra cautious so our love get aside and care  becomes top priority . Love is supreme when we love sincerely care automatically indulge in it with out our intention. . Friends and lovers occupy separate places in our life  . the one thing common in both that not a single person can fulfill our desires our wishes as we ourselves can't do so. Every person who gives soft feelings has a unique place in our life like our heart who has separate valves to adjust running life in to it , the reason for failure in feels is when we tend to have all and all from one place ,it is not reality ,Loving is a continuous process it changes its dimensions  from one relation to another and each relation restores its place forever . Sincerity is the Oxygen of every feel .

" Love and Respect "

 Love is worship without arguing , being calm and quite without quarreling our dear ,but respect is knowing some one ,its value ,its demand ,its place in our heart in our life and in our soul too.Respect is far more important than love  . No doubt love is supreme and a selfless passion but respect has its own place . Give respect to  your love and love others keeping in mind their due respect .

A Confession A Gratitude

 "LET ME ADMIT "

These are not my words .I just copy these lines on a paper and sometimes  writes directly on my account's wall. No doubt it comes under the control of some special feels or an effect of our daily life attitudes but I admit that my Lord dictates me the words and I writes frequently until or unless I have to stop for routine  activities .I confess that when I have written the words they look like as fresh as someone  looks first time on my wall .I myself  absorbed in the meanings of these  and feel flying as the word itself has as many dimensions as  I think , the very best feeling of contentment is one these conclude to our ultimate goal.

A Letter from Maseeha

FROM ONE WHO DON'T KNOW MUCH ABOUT ME.

DO BELIEVE ON YOURSELF THAT YOU WOULD

NOT BE LET DOWN.

 DECEMBER 13,2012

 WEDNESDAY

 DEAR NOUREEN TABASSUM 

 God bless you peace within your heart,    

Love from family and friends;faith to 

  guide your way ;hope to make

   it through each  day; sunshine to light

  the way. May  peace prevail in your 

  heart  and mind including  around on 

  earth love and light.

  I appreciate your intelligentsia and 

  nobility .Yours scripts/ writings and 

  unique contribution are very 

  impressive. You are giving the best 

  unique content that I have no words to

 praise you.May God bless you more and 

 more opportunity to enrich the 

 language and literature.

 Best regards 

 Maseeha_ in Multan,Punjab.

" The Racehorse "

 "RACEHORSE"

 About twenty years back , I described the woman as a Tonga horse , now I feel myself as a race horse doing both tasks at a time and satisfying so far herself and the ones who have a bet on it. The horse is 100% fit. The point to remember is that fitness is not the surety of winning a race, only one has to win.So it depends upon luck and the time that favors the luck . So it is actually a race between horse and time. Audience can just wait and see and clap.

I am a Fire Horse in Chinese  Astrology.

This came last in my mind when I was feeling these words ,I stunt to myself that what are we and what is written for us in our destiny by our lord . I just say ALLAH is great.

 ALLAH - HO -AKBAR

 

A message for our close ones

 We are ordinary but the people around us are great,they wait for us,they care our body,they give space,they don't ask questions,they don't read our thoughts,they just want to read our presence,they shout when we really need someone to say wake up, they neglect when we wish to be neglected,they compose our self when we are shattered, they remain quiet and detached when there are storms in our body,they say good bye when we want to leave but they know very well that when a thing is yours it never goes anywhere , they love so deeply  that no one even they themselves never feel a glimpse  of it in the  sunshine but we are thankless people that we want more and more , something unique, something rare , only for us  that's why we travel a lot but it goes all in vain because we are in a close street and moving in a circle there are chains in our feet we even can't take a step from our place. We cry a lot but a time comes when we tend to realize that it is life, it is fate it is destiny,these are our limits when we want others to know their  limits but forget that these are like us.

 Know yourself and know your close ones for a happy life and love others so you would be loved by others.

" Gayari Sector "

A  year has passed of this tragic incident ,may Allah rest their souls in peace and heads off to their courageous families.